Many of us want to have a better sex life which includes passion and more intimacy, so here are some tips on…
How To Become An Empowered Women In The Bedroom.
When we were younger, being empowered women seems like something our mom would do, but being an empowered woman is for all ages of women. In every aspect of life an empowered woman must be able to find her own spirituality, social or economic strength of individuality and developing confidence in her own capacity.
With that said, when it comes to the bedroom, many women go through life wanting more romance, love and of course sexual fireworks. Haven’t we all be there, how many times have you been with a man, your boyfriend or your husband thinking to yourself “That’s it”?!? How do we get what we want? We are women and need to use our power in our relationships. It is time women become the empowered women we need to be in the bedroom. How does Nicki Minaj empower herself in the bedroom? She revealed to Cosmopolitan:
“I demand that I climax. I think women should demand that.”
When you think about it, isn’t communication one of the most important components in life? Yes and no, but we need to start communicating and listening to our men! If we do not tell our man what we like, how are they going to know? Too many women “fake it”. That’s not going to get you what you want. If you need more time, say so. If you like it, act like it and be verbal.
If you want to try something new with your man, but do not know how to go about asking him, you can always try to be adventurous. If he asks what you are doing, tell him to let you surprise him. Men like to be tantalized, taken out of their element and even feel like they’re cheating on their woman; so give your man what he wants. If he likes porn, watch it with him. Dominate the bedroom and be that empowered women in the Bedroom.
If he asks you to stop, do not get frustrated. Be sure to talk about it later and see if he might try your request another time. You can also make suggestions about what you want to do in bed, but make sure to listen. That is the key.
You may not always get what you want in bed, but you can certainly learn how to be the empowered woman in the bedroom!
So ladies be sure to:
- Use your voice and communicate.
- Be verbal and ask each other what you like.
- Respond to sexual sensations.
- Try to be adventurous and if it doesn’t go like you planned the first time, try to work into it. Be safe, have the best sex ever and fall in love.